Sex and christian dating
Regardless of your theology on the Predestination of Girlfriends, you're probably eager to be an active participant in your dating life. People didn't date in biblical times, there is no such thing as "Biblical Dating".Dating as a socially accepted means of finding a mate has been around for less than a century.There are "Christian dating" ideas floating around that have little or nothing to do with the Bible.Most are well intended and contain a nugget of truth. Dating is hard enough without sifting through all this erroneous information, so let's debunk some myths around Christian dating.There are some myths out there that people assume to be gospel about dating, especially among Christians.
God may, in fact, have a spunky brunette in mind, and he's steering you toward her as you read this.
There are plenty of them, but let's focus on what I believe are the top five myths that make dating harder for Christian singles. There is plenty of stuff about God's will for his people, God wanting good things for you, and God's ultimate plan.
Nowhere, however, does it say that God picked out a spunky brunette whom he's waiting to spring on you at the right moment. When it comes to God, I'm pretty careful about saying what he does or doesn't do.
The Bible promises he will provide that whenever we ask.
Rely on God's love, wisdom, and sustaining presence while you're dating.Before that, strict courtship rituals governed the path to marriage.Whom you married wasn't even up to you most of the time.Rather than directing the course of the relationship, God wants the couple to grow and learn how to make a commitment.