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Did I stay during his treatment and see what would happen on the other side, or did I leave him? I put the man I know him to be on one side and the addiction and terrible choices on the other and it always shifted one way.
It was so hard to accept that this was an illness, but the way I looked at it, if my husband had been suffering from cancer, I would not have turned my back on him.
“Sex addiction brings a very particular set of challenges and trauma and we really felt the need to address it,” says Weldon.
“The discovery of the addiction is usually a bombshell.
My sister saved me in those first few months and she was the one who found the Rutland Centre.
There was a very small circle I could talk to and you have to have absolute trust in the people you tell because it is a matter of life or death in this addiction.
But she says, “that changes very quickly when the devastation for the person and their partner comes to light”.You become a member of this club that you never knew existed and you never wanted to be in.But you need to know that you are not alone and that you can survive because at times you think you can’t.It was an incredibly lonely time because his sex addiction had to stay hidden to protect our children.